It's Time To Return To Ourselves
We’ve been running so hard for so long, we can’t even remember what we were chasing
Everywhere you look, there’s a new crisis, a new deadline, a new distraction clawing at your focus. We scroll, we click, we hustle. We measure our worth by productivity, our identity by output. We’ve traded presence for performance, peace for perfectionism, and somewhere along the way—we left ourselves behind.
But here’s the truth no algorithm wants you to hear:
You don’t need to earn your existence. You already belong.
We weren’t meant to live like this—tethered to devices, addicted to validation, starving for meaning in a world of metrics. The noise is constant, but the silence inside us has grown louder. That ache you feel? That’s not failure. That’s a signal. A call. A knowing.
It’s time to return.
Return to what?
Not to some nostalgic golden age. Not to childhood innocence or utopian fantasy.
But to yourself.
To the quiet rhythms beneath the chaos.
To the breath you’ve ignored.
To the body you’ve overworked.
To the mind you’ve filled with everyone else’s opinions but your own.
What does returning look like?
It looks like turning your phone off without apology.
It looks like walking without a podcast, just listening to your footsteps.
It looks like reading for pleasure—not performance.
It looks like morning tea, unhurried.
It looks like choosing depth over speed, soul over spectacle.
It means saying no more often. Not out of rebellion, but out of reverence.
It means asking new questions. Not How do I keep up?—but Do I even want to go where this race is headed?
Because the rat race has no finish line. And even if you win, you’re still a rat.
Lao Tzu said, “He who knows he has enough is rich.”
Not wealthy. Not powerful. Rich. In time. In clarity. In connection.
So many of us feel exhausted not because we’re lazy, but because we’ve been performing a version of ourselves we don’t believe in anymore. And it’s costing us everything real.
What if you gave yourself permission to slow down? To shed the roles that no longer fit? To live a day that feels like yours?
What if the real revolution wasn’t louder or faster—but quieter, slower, more human?
Here’s the radical act
Stop.
Breathe.
Ask: What feels like me?
Start there.
You don’t need to fix everything today. But you can remember.
That there is still music in your silence.
Still truth in your slowness.
Still a life waiting to be lived—not later, but now.
It’s not too late to return.
To wholeness.
To simplicity.
To the wisdom you were born with.
To the self you never truly lost, just forgot how to hear.
It’s time.
Return.
Here’s some music that helps me when I want to return to the way “it used to be,” at least inside my head.
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Until we meet again, let your conscience be your guide.
"Our heart is restless until it rests in you." St. Augustine of Hippo
I liked the Lao Tzu quote the best. Thanks for this.
Jim Szantor